Conversation - the purest form of romance

March 12, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized 

Conversation may be the purest form of intimacy.  My attempt to hear what you are saying- and not just your words, but your intent- could be the most genuine expression of love that I am capable of giving.  In listening to you, and  in responding as I perceive your intent, I am honestly and vulnerably stating my love for you.  Honestly, because as I hear and respond - assuming that I have good intentions in my heart, I am giving you the parameters of my “filter” as it were.  Coming from my own rearing, with it’s stops and starts, combined with my personal strengths and weaknesses, I am able to process what you are expressing only to the point that I am able.  Vulnerably, because I am willing to open my heart to you in that process, and be willing to get some things wrong on the path to “getting you” right.  In looking into your heart, and not just for a sexy lingerie outfit, I am not looking simply to please myself, but to know your heart.

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