The amazing difference in men & women
March 13, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
Ladies, while you may desire communication more than anything else from your man, and while your picture of that communication and his may take paths as divergent as the points on the compass, we may assure our mutual selves of one true thing: men and women communicate in very different ways! The mind of a woman is a maze, with new beauties to be discovered around every corner; a veritable cornucopia of nuanced truths and opinions that must be mined with utmost care, ensuring that no ore is cast aside without deliberate and thorough examination; indeed, this may be the hope diamond of thoughts, the crown jewels of this days’ deliberations!! All words emanating forth are filtered fondly through the seine of the many-textured layers of personal experience, and the glittering jewels carefully gleaned from this loving and willing process are precisely placed in correct contextual arrangement (taking into consideration, of course, the current situational aspects; mood, temperature, time of the year, time of the…ahem…month, etc..) according to preceding conversations–which, of a certainty, remain, permanently and with perfect recall, available for perusal at a moments notice. And while ten times as many words could only begin to caress the many-faceted and gorgeously-reflective course employed in the mind of woman when enjoined in what is lovingly revered as communication, a man may sum up the same in two…simple….yet beautiful words: Sexy Lingere.
How to make your last-minute intimate night a success
March 13, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
Keep a box, high on a shelf in your closet, specifically for these last minute romantic evenings. Put a bottle of red wine inside, chocolates, candles, massage oil, new sexy lingerie you’ve never worn, and a satin blindfold.
You can also put anything else in the box you would like to have available as your emergency supply kit. Put an expiration date on the outside of the box, reminding you to use it by a certain date so that the chocolates don’t become stale.
This emergency supply kit will go a long way in building the excitement of the evening and keeping things on hand that turn a regular night into a special night.
The reality when you have kids is that anything could happen anytime. Be prepared for a knock on the bedroom door, or a crying baby. Keep a robe for you and a pair of shorts or sweatpants for him by the bed the whole time so you can quickly leave the room to deal with the kids and get back.
It’s also important to know that something could come up that would take a while to deal with, or completely end the night. If one of the kids gets sick or you have an emergency, obviously the romance will be postponed. Know that coming into the evening and be determined to go with the flow and pick up on the romance sooner rather than later.
How to have a last minute night of romance even if you have kids
March 13, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
While all moms would love to be able to put on sexy lingerie (like Totally Sexy Lingerie’s floral sexy bra and panty set) and have an amazing night whenever the mood strikes them, most of the time it is nearly impossible to have a romantic night without planning.
What’s the number one reason a last-minute intimate night is difficult? The kids. The best way to work with them to allow you time with each other is to include them. Focus on them at dinner… talk or play with them, and try to get them to use some energy.
Choose a family dinner that everyone enjoys, but choose something that cleans up easily. The last thing you want to be stuck doing after the kids go to bed is kitchen clean-up. After dinner get the whole family involved with whatever cleanup needs to be done.
After you’ve played for a while, sit down as a family and read or do something more calm that requires them to settle down a bit. Perhaps a movie for them would be a good choice - something slow and quiet that they would perhaps fall asleep to.
Use this time to flirt with each other and start building up the mood. Steal glances, exchange suggestive looks, and squeeze in some holding hands or kissing just relax and don’t be in a hurry to get this time with them over with. Enjoy it.
A little while before you are going to put them to bed, turn on some music in your bedroom, the music will let them adjust to the noise before they go to sleep and will help you feel less pressure to be so quiet once they’ve drifted off.
Now serve dessert after the kids go to bed… serve an elegant dessert to help put you both in the “together time” mood.
Don’t serve dessert until you’re ready to focus on each other. Cuddle on the couch and listen to the music you turned on while you eat dessert together, or take it into the bedroom and feed each other.
From there, just relax and enjoy each other!
The unique definitions of romance
March 12, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
Romance! Is there a word in the english language more burdened with preconceptions? Each of us brings a set of ideas about it into a relationship that are as unique as our own fingerprint; and, truly, as bonded to our identities. I can no more define romance from your perspective than I could see from inside your own set of eyes! Therefore, to make a relationship work, I must be flexible in both my definition of what romance is and also its implementation. To one, it may be a simple red rose. To another, it would be unthinkable without slinky, sexy lingerie! In what may be the truest summation of what it is to participate in complete intimacy (and not just it’s physical manifestation, however thrilling it may be!), my definition of romance becomes seated in yours: physical, emotional and spiritual. Without knowing you at each of these levels, what I act upon in my understanding of romance is, and only can be, incomplete.
Conversation - the purest form of romance
March 12, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
Conversation may be the purest form of intimacy. My attempt to hear what you are saying- and not just your words, but your intent- could be the most genuine expression of love that I am capable of giving. In listening to you, and in responding as I perceive your intent, I am honestly and vulnerably stating my love for you. Honestly, because as I hear and respond - assuming that I have good intentions in my heart, I am giving you the parameters of my “filter” as it were. Coming from my own rearing, with it’s stops and starts, combined with my personal strengths and weaknesses, I am able to process what you are expressing only to the point that I am able. Vulnerably, because I am willing to open my heart to you in that process, and be willing to get some things wrong on the path to “getting you” right. In looking into your heart, and not just for a sexy lingerie outfit, I am not looking simply to please myself, but to know your heart.
Erotic Lingerie Styles Just Released In Online Store
February 6, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | 1 Comment
TotallySexyLingerie.net just released their 2008 line of lingerie, and I must say… it’s pretty hot. You have some of the classic styles - the short little gowns that are lacy, or sheer, or silky; the cute garterbelt sets that come with a matching bra and thong; and the typical thongs and teddies.
But this year it looks like some more edgy styles have been added to the lineup. Take the line of little booty short sets for example… you have the handless gloves with the matching booty shorts, the rocker chick plaid set, the country girl set, and the ballerina set. Trust me, you have to see them… they are incredibly sexy.
Skulls and skeletons have also found their place in Totally Sexy’s lineup this year. They have several sexy sets that feature skulls in rhinestones, skeleton print, and plaid with skull trim.
They’ve also added more animal prints, sheer styles, and open bust bras. And those who are girls at heart will appreciate the new polka-dotted styles.
Truly a nice selection, with a lot of new sex appeal added, and worth the time to check it out.
Online lingerie stores that sell plus sizes for women
January 25, 2008 | Filed Under Lingerie | Leave a Comment
Shopping for plus size lingerie can be embarrassing and awkward for some women cause they don’t want to have the feeling of people to see what they are buying for them. So most oversized women usually go online to buy their lingerie so they can feel in peace and not wondering what people are going to say about them.
Some online stores specialize in the plus size so they can get a picture at what they are getting before that buy the lingerie that they like.
Buying lingerie for your speacial someone
January 25, 2008 | Filed Under Romance | Leave a Comment
Buying sexy lingerie for their girlfriend or wife is one of the things men enjoy doing cause it makes them feel really good to see them really happy that their man is not care what their body looks like cause they love their wife or girlfriend. One big day of the year is Valentines day and many men are looking for romantic gift ideas for their woman. For some men, going into a lingerie store is embarrassing cause they don’t want people looking at them to see what they are getting for their special someone. Many men don’t know what to buy, and wandering aimlessly around a store full of women’s underwear makes them feel simultaneously embarrassed and awkward.
Tips on selecting a sexy gown that can spice up your romance
January 25, 2008 | Filed Under Lingerie | Leave a Comment
Some online stores specialize in certain types of lingerie, but a good many of them carry all of the styles a woman loves: busters, corsets, g-strings, thongs, baby dolls, gowns, stockings, and more. Gowns are what make women feel great specially when they are looking for bridal gowns cause that is the most important day of their life and they want to have the best gown they can find.
Want to wear your attitude or hide it, a fashionable look or a divine one or both at the same time, fulfils all your demands successfully. We know women differ from each other in respect of physical presentation, attitudes, ideas and opinions. That’s why we have come with numerous varieties of colors to match the mood of each and every women.
Free Romance Compatibility Quiz
January 6, 2008 | Filed Under Romance | Leave a Comment
These days, there are a lot of great ways to meet new people for a romantic encounter or to start a relationship: online dating sites, Internet chat rooms and speed dating events have been added to the more traditional ways of meeting a potential mate such as bars, vacations, work and through introductions from friends.
However, meeting someone new is just half the battle. Doing a little homework now could mean the difference between romantic bliss and getting stuck with the relationship equivalent of a lemon.
Here are 8 questions to ask yourself:
Question 1: Do you excite each other physically?
It is important that you feel physically attracted to one another. Reason: some people who are feeling desperate to find a mate might resort getting serious with someone who seems to be a “great person” but for whom they lack any attraction. Big mistake!
Question 2: Is it easy to keep a conversation going?
After a couple of years have passed, most couples report a cooling off in their sex life. It is at this point that it becomes particularly important that you actually find each other interesting to be around, not just nice looking or good in bed.
Question 3: Do you have similar standards of hygiene and cleanliness?
Maybe your mate looks well-groomed in public, while their workplace or home remains a perpetual pigsty. If this is so and you are someone who prefers things to be spot-free, you could be heading for trouble.
Question 4: Are you accepting of each other’s religious beliefs?
As the world gets smaller, people are increasingly marrying outside of their faith. While it is not important that you agree on all things religious, it is important that both of you are accepting of any differences of belief you have.
Question 5: Do you feel comfortable around each other’s families and friends?
When you get into a serious relationship with another person, you have little choice but to link into their family and friend network. When you do, stay in tune with how you feel when around them.
Question 6: Are you on the same page financially?
Money can be one of the biggest sources of anxiety for people in relationships. Some people tend to be savers, while others tend to spend. Neither way is inherently wrong, but it is helpful if the two of you manage money in a similar way.
Question 7: Do you hold similar views about the importance of having children?
If the female member of your relationship is still of a child-bearing age, you owe it to yourselves to have a talk about how each of you feels about having kids; you want to avoid finding yourself at an impasse on this issue down the road.
Question 8: Are you able to accept the other person’s political views?
Some couples are able to peacefully ignore any political differences between them: after all, do any two people on the planet see exactly eye to eye on all things political? Be cautious, however, if you are not accepting of each other’s views.
Okay, go ahead and tally up your “yes” answers and check the chart below to see how you did.
8 Yeses: Stop what you are doing and book a trip to Vegas right now!
6-7 Yeses: You have a very good thing going on here. Be sure to keep your eyes open for any potential deal-breakers and, meanwhile, have fun with it!
3-5 Yeses: Proceed with caution. Sure, things could work out with this person, but why chance it? Stay open to the possibility that there is someone even more suited to you out there.
0-2 Yeses: Run away while you still can and do not look back.
Is it wise to trust the future of your love life to a quiz you found online? You know better than that. But, before you discount the results, think again. Most people who have been in relationships that have lasted for more than a few months will tell you that there are certain things that just have to be right for the relationship to last.