How to make your last-minute intimate night a success
March 13, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
Keep a box, high on a shelf in your closet, specifically for these last minute romantic evenings. Put a bottle of red wine inside, chocolates, candles, massage oil, new sexy lingerie you’ve never worn, and a satin blindfold.
You can also put anything else in the box you would like to have available as your emergency supply kit. Put an expiration date on the outside of the box, reminding you to use it by a certain date so that the chocolates don’t become stale.
This emergency supply kit will go a long way in building the excitement of the evening and keeping things on hand that turn a regular night into a special night.
The reality when you have kids is that anything could happen anytime. Be prepared for a knock on the bedroom door, or a crying baby. Keep a robe for you and a pair of shorts or sweatpants for him by the bed the whole time so you can quickly leave the room to deal with the kids and get back.
It’s also important to know that something could come up that would take a while to deal with, or completely end the night. If one of the kids gets sick or you have an emergency, obviously the romance will be postponed. Know that coming into the evening and be determined to go with the flow and pick up on the romance sooner rather than later.
How to have a last minute night of romance even if you have kids
March 13, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
While all moms would love to be able to put on sexy lingerie (like Totally Sexy Lingerie’s floral sexy bra and panty set) and have an amazing night whenever the mood strikes them, most of the time it is nearly impossible to have a romantic night without planning.
What’s the number one reason a last-minute intimate night is difficult? The kids. The best way to work with them to allow you time with each other is to include them. Focus on them at dinner… talk or play with them, and try to get them to use some energy.
Choose a family dinner that everyone enjoys, but choose something that cleans up easily. The last thing you want to be stuck doing after the kids go to bed is kitchen clean-up. After dinner get the whole family involved with whatever cleanup needs to be done.
After you’ve played for a while, sit down as a family and read or do something more calm that requires them to settle down a bit. Perhaps a movie for them would be a good choice - something slow and quiet that they would perhaps fall asleep to.
Use this time to flirt with each other and start building up the mood. Steal glances, exchange suggestive looks, and squeeze in some holding hands or kissing just relax and don’t be in a hurry to get this time with them over with. Enjoy it.
A little while before you are going to put them to bed, turn on some music in your bedroom, the music will let them adjust to the noise before they go to sleep and will help you feel less pressure to be so quiet once they’ve drifted off.
Now serve dessert after the kids go to bed… serve an elegant dessert to help put you both in the “together time” mood.
Don’t serve dessert until you’re ready to focus on each other. Cuddle on the couch and listen to the music you turned on while you eat dessert together, or take it into the bedroom and feed each other.
From there, just relax and enjoy each other!
The unique definitions of romance
March 12, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
Romance! Is there a word in the english language more burdened with preconceptions? Each of us brings a set of ideas about it into a relationship that are as unique as our own fingerprint; and, truly, as bonded to our identities. I can no more define romance from your perspective than I could see from inside your own set of eyes! Therefore, to make a relationship work, I must be flexible in both my definition of what romance is and also its implementation. To one, it may be a simple red rose. To another, it would be unthinkable without slinky, sexy lingerie! In what may be the truest summation of what it is to participate in complete intimacy (and not just it’s physical manifestation, however thrilling it may be!), my definition of romance becomes seated in yours: physical, emotional and spiritual. Without knowing you at each of these levels, what I act upon in my understanding of romance is, and only can be, incomplete.
Conversation - the purest form of romance
March 12, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Leave a Comment
Conversation may be the purest form of intimacy. My attempt to hear what you are saying- and not just your words, but your intent- could be the most genuine expression of love that I am capable of giving. In listening to you, and in responding as I perceive your intent, I am honestly and vulnerably stating my love for you. Honestly, because as I hear and respond - assuming that I have good intentions in my heart, I am giving you the parameters of my “filter” as it were. Coming from my own rearing, with it’s stops and starts, combined with my personal strengths and weaknesses, I am able to process what you are expressing only to the point that I am able. Vulnerably, because I am willing to open my heart to you in that process, and be willing to get some things wrong on the path to “getting you” right. In looking into your heart, and not just for a sexy lingerie outfit, I am not looking simply to please myself, but to know your heart.
Erotic Lingerie Styles Just Released In Online Store
February 6, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | 1 Comment
TotallySexyLingerie.net just released their 2008 line of lingerie, and I must say… it’s pretty hot. You have some of the classic styles - the short little gowns that are lacy, or sheer, or silky; the cute garterbelt sets that come with a matching bra and thong; and the typical thongs and teddies.
But this year it looks like some more edgy styles have been added to the lineup. Take the line of little booty short sets for example… you have the handless gloves with the matching booty shorts, the rocker chick plaid set, the country girl set, and the ballerina set. Trust me, you have to see them… they are incredibly sexy.
Skulls and skeletons have also found their place in Totally Sexy’s lineup this year. They have several sexy sets that feature skulls in rhinestones, skeleton print, and plaid with skull trim.
They’ve also added more animal prints, sheer styles, and open bust bras. And those who are girls at heart will appreciate the new polka-dotted styles.
Truly a nice selection, with a lot of new sex appeal added, and worth the time to check it out.